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Some people identify as 'aegosexual' - what that actually means
As new terms and identities continue to emerge within the landscape of human sexuality, one that may not be as widely recognized is aegosexuality. Part of the asexual spectrum, aegosexuality refers to people who experience sexual arousal and desire but feel no interest in engaging in sexual activity with others.
This condition highlights a unique disconnect where individuals can feel sexual attraction yet lack the desire to participate in sexual acts themselves.
Aegosexuality was initially defined as "autochorissexuality" in 2012 by Dr. Anthony Bogaert, a psychologist specializing in human sexuality. The term was later changed to aegosexuality in 2014 by a Tumblr user, Sugar-and-Spite.
These individuals may experience sexual fantasies or arousal involving others or fictional characters, but never imagine themselves taking part in these activities.
The history of aegosexuality
The concept of aegosexuality first appeared under the label of "autochorissexuality," derived from the word "autochoris," meaning "sexuality without identity." This was a time when asexuality was often misunderstood and wrongly categorized as a psychological disorder.
Aegosexuality's inclusion under the asexual umbrella initially led to its classification as a paraphilia, a term referring to intense sexual attraction to unusual objects or behaviors. Over time, this notion has been challenged and reframed, with advocates working to shift perceptions.
Despite these challenges, the term aegosexuality continued to evolve. The stigma surrounding this identity still persists today, especially given its prior classification as a disorder. However, over the years, the recognition of different sexual orientations has grown, encouraging a better understanding of fluidity in human sexuality.
Aegosexuality versus voyeurism
While some may confuse aegosexuality with voyeurism, the two are distinct. Voyeurism involves gaining sexual pleasure from watching others, often in secret, and is typically considered a kink or fetish.
Aegosexuality, on the other hand, represents a person's unique sexual identity. As explained by Dr. Elyssa Helfer, a clinical sexologist, aegosexuality does not involve the desire to engage in sexual activity with others, but rather the experience of arousal and fantasies about others without the wish to be part of those experiences.
The distinction between these two concepts is vital for reducing misunderstandings about the identity and providing a clearer understanding of how people experience sexual attraction.
Aegosexuality remains a niche identity within the larger spectrum of asexuality. With limited resources and ongoing stigma, it is crucial for society to acknowledge the variety of sexual identities and the fluidity of sexual experiences.